It’s Thursday. That means that tomorrow I only have to work until 11:30. Normally Thursdays are pretty good days for me. Today by 7:00 am this was me…
I guess some days it is just a better idea to stay in bed than get up and face the world. Some would say it’s probably just better to not ask questions you’re scared to hear the answer to. So I ask you…
Is it better to spend forever wondering or ask the question
and get the answer you didn’t want to get??
Some people think that it’s better to just not ask the question when in the end the answer doesn’t change anything. Me? I would rather ask. Even if you get an answer you don’t want it’s better than spending forever wondering. Sure, if you chose not to ask then you can pretend that the answer would be one that you want. Isn’t that just living in denial though? Plus, if you’re wondering or playing out the worst in your head and it turns out to be true are you really any worse off than if you just kept wondering/playing out the worst? I really hope that makes sense.
I tend to be an over thinker. I am the queen of the “what-if” game and the princess of playing out situations in my head over and over again. This is a horrible trait that I wish with all my heart I could get rid of. I can take a situation and twist and turn it so many different ways that even the best roller-coaster builder would be jealous. It’s because of this that I am able to look at situations from different angles and not have to pay a fortune for a therapist to tell me that crap. It’s also because of this that I have learned asking the questions and dealing with knowing is better than always wondering.
What do you think is better?